Dating an emotional man
The more you text, talk with, and invest in someone right away, the more you risk feeling brokenhearted over someone you hardly know when it doesn’t work out.
Play your hand cautiously in dating and you’ll achieve far more successful results in your relationships.
You constantly text him – or think about texting him.
Again, it’s normal to think or daydream about someone you like.
Simply put, people who feel good about and proud of the overall package they are don’t feel the need to rush because they don’t have emotional holes they’re looking to fill.
But if your self-esteem is up one day and down the next, finding someone to like you becomes the most all-encompassing drive on earth.
The focus must be on delayed gratification early in dating, as opposed to wanting it all at this very minute.It’s a stressful, sometimes gut-wrenching experience to care so much about being liked back, so don’t put yourself through that when you simply don’t have to!Why you do it: Somewhere along the way, someone didn’t teach you well enough to believe that you are worthy and good enough.As a parent, for example, I can’t tell you the number of times each week I tell my 5 and 7-year-old kids how smart, sweet and all-around awesome they are.If you grow up with that praise on a daily basis, odds are that you’ll carry those positive internal voices with you into adulthood – and into your romantic relationships.